The Best Rejection Letter Ever
My manuscript is not good enough. Woo hoo! I got my first rejection
letter! Why am I excited? @ProNagger said it best: "Congratulations!
It means you are in the game."
But if watching Barbie and the Three Musketeers 37 times has taught me anything, it is that you can do anything you set your mind to as long as you keep trying.
Plus, the result isn't exactly a surprise. Since I submitted the MS, I have been studying and practicing. I have learned enough to know the work wasn't my best. I still don't know how to write my best, but I am happy knowing I am moving
from Uninformed Pessimism to Informed Pessimism.
What am I talking about? The
Transition Curve of course.
I remember drawing this many times for (fellow) yuppies back in my previous life in Corporate America. It looks like this:
I remember drawing this many times for (fellow) yuppies back in my previous life in Corporate America. It looks like this:
Everyone starts in "Uninformed Optimism." You are doing something new, and the
challenge is exciting. You are going to
be the best accountant/librarian/juggler ever!
Then some gray clouds start to move in. You
realize the job is going to be difficult. You don't know what you need to do to be
successful. I now realize my blog post about climbing out of a rut was part of the trip through "Uninformed Pessimism."
You screw up enough that you finally begin to compile a long list
of the things you don't know. In "Informed
Pessimism" you still don't know what you are doing, but you are becoming
more aware of your missing skills and knowledge.
There is comfort in knowing what you don't know. (Yay, me!)
The brave and tough are able to gain the needed skills and move into
"Informed Optimism." You start
to deliver on deadlines and expectations.
Success breeds more optimism. You
can do this. In fact you do it every day.
Oh the flames at the bottom right?
That's the crash and burn section.
I think it goes without saying you should not to crash and burn. Just keep swimming.
I still have a lot of rejection to look forward to. I am only on the first rung of Charlotte Dillon's rejection ladder: the photocopied stock rejection letter.
But if watching Barbie and the Three Musketeers 37 times has taught me anything, it is that you can do anything you set your mind to as long as you keep trying.
I love your attitude! This is very well written - I think you made the right decision to leave the corporate world to pursue your dream of writing! I wish you the best of luck!!
ReplyDeleteSupport like that will push me right up the hill to optimism!
ReplyDeleteA rejection means you're one more letter closer to an acceptance. Thanks for encouraging me in my struggle and teaching me the transition curve. Good luck with the writing!
ReplyDeleteGood luck to you too. I am waiting for more fortune cookie stories on your blog!
ReplyDeleteHeyyyy!!!! Congratulations!!!!! Thanks for the Transition Curve, too. So very true of everything. Happy writing! (And re-writing and querying and getting rejected and getting PUBLISHED!) :-D
ReplyDeleteMy horoscope today seems to indicate something awesome is about to happen, so I think a book deal is eminent. (Well, assuming I resubmit something...) :)
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